How to work as a psychic - and still be ok?
So here are some pointers to me to you - for everyone really. How to get it together and make it ok - after and before every session, every day.
Body locks up - if you are prolific like myself. If you have to care for separate people always don’t worry - you will not likely remember them. I have never remembered anyone - but rather - just knew them in a different part of my psyche. Don’t care about what they say or how they think - the difference is that they will probably not like or respect you from the start so that is how - I make a difference with my readings.
Why - oh why
Would you bother
With a written report
Before
Every
Session
!!
And here is my answer to you my dear heart. I have to have respect before I speak to someone. If you can just scan their energy or see their chart and come up with the goods before - they ask any questions - and impress them by the quality of your insight before you see them - you will get there quick. Pop opens the window - they are in it - hello, how are you and bang - you are onto a good conversation straight up. No weird eerie feeling no - “did I spend my money right” feeling - you are in.
So the one step I take always is - the written reports. That saves my ass from trouble.
Also being - neuro divergent and increasingly so - it is hard for me - heavy to see people and talk to them with my eyes looking - you know - blinking at them. That was hard always since I was a child so I block them off energetically during the report so I don’t have to be overly empathetic or motherly - seeing their good qualities fast and knowing what to say to pull them up - not down.
Never pull people down - that will destroy your auric field
And a lot of councillors and psychics do not have any energy because - they have to be - pushy with people and make them - stop judgement. And that means - pulling them down. Do not do that. Pull them up - never down
And then you have to start over. Again - every day - when you start session - don’t worry about what you said or done before
If your insight - indeed is correct and you have the skills
You don’t have to
Remember names
Or words you said
Because you see - if you have the gift it’ll just be placed infant of you - it’ll be given to you without being prepared or going through previous conversations so don’t worry - I don’t carry any info about people in my head or heart so - no memories needed
You just have to trust it. Even if you forgot what you talked about before so
Never - carry people with you
Because you’ll get - small in the mind
And then the body goes
And yeah - don’t make friends of your clients even if they are really good people. What I have done later in life is this.
You have to support them and be able to emotionally afford them if you want to be friends afterwards and the laws are never the same - it is more like parent and child or guru and student so don’t be that.
Make sure you have your say - in the conversation - which is correct to do but never reduce yourself to teacher - in the story where you have made friends or worse - slept with a previous contact that you got through work you might not feel the same about yourself or your friendships and it might destroy some of the other bonds
That means that even if some things feel informal - the more professional the better
Because
If you don’t have enough strength in you or enough diligence you might simply - allow certain people to be up close and others not - here is the pyramid - see that. What does that do.
Make sure you have no rights to anyone - you might accidentally want them to be your best friend suddenly - never allow that. You have a contract and it should never be broken try to disperse everyone on the same terms.
Write out
The terms and conditions
Straight away
I’m not a friend. I’m - a psychic. It is very important to do this. Because
Otherwise you’ll get swamped and it is easy to get afraid later if you don’t get the same treatment from people or those amazing lush compliments and yeah your friendships either with loved ones or psychic clients will never be the same - you will never be able to reconstruct that - as you might be the tip of the pyramid or that - special apple of the eye
So what I did here - is destroy myself or my business as it became dark and hollow - don’t be that and don’t do that to yourself. Simply don’t be interested it’s ok that it is not interesting for you. Even if you meet a really hot person through work - don’t invite them in. Make it very clear you don’t need them. And that they know
That contract is law.
That you will never have another session as with them with anyone but that doesn’t mean they are allowed to be - inside your life. Don’t let people go inside your own private affairs and know any more than they need to know about you unless it is just common knowledge. Be ok - they don’t care. And sometimes may also distance or disrespect you if they don’t get - what they want which is - your mana
Your food or your soul energy
They don’t know how to access something that you are likely to know a lot about that is why
Its not even jealousy or sadness - unless you eventually become open like me. Inevitably I’ll have to do that - anything goes - anyone works and it’s ok - like a passing field. Like a field where just anyone goes.
It’s ok
I’m friendly
But here you might loose yourself or you might not make as much money as before
So you need to keep things legit. Be legitimate. Get as much paperwork as you can done so you know your rights and they know what their rights are - both financially and emotionally and what they want to do - maybe in the end is also -
Release you
So that you are not important or accountable…as you might simply be “not the one” when they find out eventually who they are meant to be around or why and why not. They need their own strength and insights. They want to be their own people
So just like kids leave the family home they will - inevitably really need to leave you and be ok - that is law. You don’t own them and neither do you need them to owe you. It is good - a good reason to be proud and happy - when they go and never come back. As they are healed. And they might never need to have another person aid them along or - make them purchase a session
So - what do you have - is it guilty - is it guilt?
Well no but there is no hope sometimes. And question - existential question of how the heck do I live like this. And I have an answer for you
Don’t make it anything it’s not.
You are just - a writer.
Or you are just - friend for hire.
Or you are - a kind of hearing or seeing person
Or another type
It’s not - a big deal. You are not friendly just because. And that has to be an obvious maybe chance to change eventually somewhat. If you hire people to do your dues or you need a cleaner for your home also - consider why. Don’t be afraid it is still - weird. Cos it’s so private. So don’t be that eventually
Make it real and possible for you not to be there if you have been stuck a while.
And here is another thing what I do is - make a totally unique and different world - a unique universe outside of people their potential or their traumas so that you simply don’t have to be there all the time. So you don’t live there like a womb. So that you don’t question it anything or pull it to give you that energy. Be fine if you don’t know - where your next client is coming from sometimes cos they don’t necessarily want or need you -
They need Those things. These things around or beside you - they don’t even know how they know. They might also really grow to love and learn a lot from you just don’t be afraid if you just simply become a kind of - copy material. Like they want to copy that. Be ok - and often - just forgive
If you ever find someone
Copying your words or actions
Be fond of them. And forgive as they just don’t want to know themselves.
And by copying your magic they - well, they release you.
So if you ever had a client who just copied you website (I had one before it was extreme) or copied your insights let them off the hook - they were tired or tied to you or by you and they - relaxed the grip by just - intermittently mirroring your progress.
So - goodbye and goodnight
I’ma gonna go to bed now.
I hope this is useful to you
Love
P
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