Not social this Aquarian season? Don’t worry – here are a few tips
If you don’t want people to be friends chances are you want them to be something else. Service people, money, surprises, entertainment, people that do things for you and so on. If you are there but aren’t interested in true connection or are not sure as to what the next steps are – don’t worry. You aren’t friends with them either as you might find people want you for a purpose but not much more this time around too. That’s not ok – but can be evened out and even fixed.
If you don’t want that but you want something “special” or “for the heart” chances that there is something superficial about your connection spectrum as well. Here are some ideas to help dilute social insecurity awkwardness – inferiority or superiority issues as well.
How to cope?
It is best not to – just surrender to what you wish for with another. Maybe you miss having your head touched by another or you miss having that cup of tea – generate that. Generate at least some kind of experience or service with a person that can give you that which you fear that you miss. Sometimes – that missing piece can be that piece of you that reforms your relationships overall – sometimes not – but without really needing or wanting people one cannot be. So replace interactions that are regular or normal perhaps with some exchanged interactions for now for money or in some social context – and then it might give way to more common place and natural interactions soon enough.
What if you are like a wounded animal – afraid?
That’s ok that you are that way – we are not all bright and fluffy during this time and sometimes at the end of a Rooster year the edges and the claws show. The best thing here is not to think – but to do – if you are able to be in groups in any way – through walking on the street or buying something at a store trust that it is an exercise as well as something decadent for you. A social exercise. The social world is on the forefront and shouldn’t be online for most of us – it should be epic it should be big and hopefully very living.
Decadence vs friends
Sometimes during this time people have one or the other. That’s ok – so with that there comes a little glitch because sometimes people can get stuck with either or – friends or money – there is a very interesting situation here through sharing and through laughter with others even in a café or restaurant you can dilute that feeling or fear of separation between your livelihood and other people by enticing yourself to at least inwardly laugh and enjoy the value of both people and financial or abundance based outcomes simultaneously without raising one above the other or placing one against the other.
What if I want to do things nobody wants to yet?
That is ok – if you are there and you are finding there’s too much ado about you or there is not enough – patience. Be patient and see how you can share what you want with others just because without making it a big deal – just because of who you are without having or needing to nurture someone or make sure they are seeing you correctly – just be patient here. Yes sometimes it is hard not being wanted or seen as who you are – and for the ones who are usually quiet it is about getting loud – and perhaps for ones that are constantly justifying themselves it is about being patient.
Patience or outpour – the main thing is not to treat anything too seriously – whether you feel up or down in the present company – above or below it – and most people are likely to create the experience of either or – it is not about you being greater then or lesser then at all – it is about you seeing neither person if you are still counting on hierarchal balance to sort things out.
How come I just want to be quiet?
So the Rooster time to crow has come and people are up for things – and you are not? That’s not too bad – gentle steps here, there are two freedoms available in silence:
1 is unconsciously sensing that you are not having to do what another does again…so the time of mimic is over or coming to a closure.
2 is not needing to….not needing to speak or not needing to experience or express that which you have done before – the veil of separation is failing so that you are no longer maybe enticed to have a very radical or open discussion now – as you might see them before you are able to feel who they are through interaction – that happens and this means that your consciousness is too evolved for yourself at the present now.
So when you find yourself quiet during this time or somehow feeling backward it is not necessarily not right for you – watch your unconscious emotional states. Are you angry? Not great. Are you just waiting for people to show up and be in silence with you at whatever place you occupy – that is better. Maybe you are definitely ahead of your time and you are waiting for when people don’t have to talk out loud so much anymore -for when people can quietly share space – which is also good. That is the best thing about this age as we are awakening to the idea that chat is cheap and there aren’t that many things done connectively when people overstimulate themselves or each other – which is true and the sign of greater times offcourse ahead.
Do you mind the drama?
If you are looking around and are seeing plenty of drama but not much else with people – that is bound to show up for you later in your life. So when you see a drama and you feel it or fear it or you react to it it is not good as you can compel yourself to expect it later in your life as polarity here reflects more than usual. Drama and dreams are one heading into Pisces – so leave it alone do not bother noticing – or else you are asking for yourself to experience it in your own first hand reality soon.
What if I want to be alone….forever?
That’s good as well actually – it is just that there are not a lot of psyche spaces for people to enjoy that state of consciousness yet. If your friends or who you have around do not seem the right vibration or you are just thinking how can I make alone time asap – that is not ok to bother. If that is flowering within you now before we get to Pisces you are ready now to give up – that means that you don’t need a calling or purpose anymore – you don’t need to shine outwardly or make amends with people as much as you did before maybe – this time maybe it is the last life and you are actually leaving us in a sense…so you have left the energetic need to persevere and allow people to know you – that’s perfect. You just must be patient and not judge yourself especially or others for it. If you truly don’t care or if your consciousness spectrum in any sense is no longer impressed or awakened by the thought or feeling of another person or people – there are ways forward here but they are silent steps not loud steps. In smaller steps even physically for some people – the largest changes can be made.
What if I don’t want to be me either?
That’s not ok – so with you there is insecurity if you don’t want to be you. That shouldn’t be left as it is – if you are after Rooster year afraid of you that is not too bad but if you are plain bored that is bad. Find who you are asap if you can. If you are not bored just ecstatic and so much that you fear you – that is actually good – that is love that hasn’t found it’s way yet.
What if I do not want anything anymore?
That is fine – silence and stillness. Patience. Smaller steps.
What if I am on the outside somehow?
And I find that about me insincere or I question this a lot?
That’s fine we all get that sometimes and this feeling of being the outsider looking in or the silent uninterested gaze – is something that happens when the person hasn’t yet considered all meaning or all feeling from the previous cycle. Sometimes after Capricorn if you worked a lot especially – you might find there is an un-emotive glaze which is just a situation of recognition. Recognition and reality checks which sometimes to some people feel plain or a lull – which is nothing wrong – it’s just a situation of reintegration and occasionally absorption of information.
Am I in or out – am I going well or not – that is something that people all over the world experience it is a natural questioning process. Do not do that if you can – just be yourself – relax into the now. No need to question.
What If I do not feel well about it all?
What If my life seems unconscious or “lesser then” somehow?
What if my projects have come to an end but I don’t yet feel the VIBE of life?
Don’t speculate as to what is natural or not natural to feel because sometimes we get told to smile when we are not frowning – we smile on the inside. Sometimes we get told to chat loud – when we naturally see things too much to raise voice. We get told to step up and arch out our backs and show respect – when we feel the greatest respect is stillness and so forth. So the VIBE of other people or the collective feeling of others – the collective group consciousness at the moment is not there yet – there are pieces amiss – and that means that yes – that to you something may look as one thing but to another that is not. And that means that staying authentic is key
And do not any longer question yourself or pull yourself apart please.
If you are no longer vibing or feeling the same – that is fine – do not do anything drastic just keep going in patience. We are in a fixed air sign. Patience is best. Even if it can be weird to swallow sometimes who you are or what you have become over time – everything is a phase. Patience.
What if I don’t want to be me just yet?
What If I don’t want to give up on my previous self or my interests from past experiences or phases of life?
That’s not ok – because we have to give up in order to assume more maturity at this time. So if you can create closure or greater compassion for self through leaving things behind that you know and seriously feel are no longer interesting or necessary to have. Even objects. Even situations. And especially people that aren’t sticking somehow
Don’t question it – if someone or something just doesn’t fit anymore – that is it. Let it go.
Where am I going to find the right people?
Everywhere. If nobody catches your eye for long enough that is not so – see who catches your eye and where your feet are leading you – don’t judge yourself for not wanting to turn up where you are asked or where you thought you aught to be. The feet will know better than you sometimes during this time.
What If I attract the “wrong people”
If you have dreams at the moment or inclinations to dream about people that’s not the best thing – that means you’re missing something or someone or something about yourself. That’s not good for you in the long run. If you are fantasizing or you are missing someone – that is best to be resolved. Ask them for forgiveness maybe or yourself for forgiveness. If you have someone in your energetic field often that’s not so good either. It’s good to have a clear people slate here.
However if you have people in the living world that are coming to you and you are neither here nor there about them – and you don’t know what you have in common – better to go out there and find new people. It is not good to not want to be around those who you are with – if you are repelled or even revulted by someone during this time – there is a chance there is a reason why – so if something or someone really doesn’t make sense and you are not interested in their world or who they are or what they do – great time to leave it behind. Facebook, Instagram, all social media – if it is not gelling – let it go – let it go or at least go somewhere where these people cannot any longer reach you just for now
Because inertia will tell you lots about the other people – a lot more than your brain or heart will know during this time.
What if I do not want to be alone yet?
And I value those old relationships?
Then you need a cleanse or to do something alone – it is not good to hold on to people out of the thought that you cannot do it otherwise by yourself. That is a trap and a trick. So you might need to take a trip or go somewhere else where nobody is going apart from you already (as that is very Piscean) and start your slate again.
What if I really care about them but
They don’t care about me anymore?
Start again.
What if I do not want to start again?
What if I’m waiting for this special person?
Unless there is a contract and a constant – meaning if they get invited or you are invited by them – unless there is a small part of constant contact there or a contract or a decision to meet later – that is not a good thing. So watch out for castles in the sky with people during this time
What if I want to but they do not want to?
Will they change their mind?
There is not likely chance that people will change. So if you were to change your mind on and off about someone – right now – how would you feel about having them in your life “constantly”? Not good maybe – same for them. If they do not know – or if they are on and off – there is a reason for this maybe. So very good to let things go especially if people are on and off about you – because you do not want to be that person later in life
What if I really need them?
That is a parasitic energy – it is a great time to cleanse the system and to eat healthy for those with attachment issue. Colonic irrigation and all sorts of cleansing and healing are great for that
What if???
What if I am tired of others and I just want them to be simple with me?
If you are waiting for a simple outcome that is not good – we’re preparing for year of Pig with year of Dog – things have to be in the heart. We have to see what is genuine – and what is addiction. What is easy and that which is longing and is made for heartache. Heartache and issues of “you promised me” have the chance to be resolved here if we are able to be patient with ourselves and not buy into anything with other people
So if you are happy and content in a group and things are organic, manageable and just easy without much thought – you’re onto it
If you are free but alone – that’ll make something in the end – do not worry you are more onto it than you thought maybe
And if you are wanting or worrying – you need to get yourself together. So yes – start thinking how you can make your vibration higher for you – not for others – and what you can do to up the vibration of your daily experience. Enjoy
With love
P
“…get yourself together…start thinking how you can make your vibration higher for you – not for others – and what you can do to up the vibration of your daily experience. Enjoy”
Perfect. Love it. Thank you for the reminder.
Kc